About a refugee ship in the Netherlands

 In the news was told of a refugee accommodation in a ship in the Netherlands, https://yle.fi/a/74-20116516 . The ship was claimed to have been a ferry between Finland abd Sweden but I am not sure of that. But it made one think of the differencies between Finland and Netherlands. 

The first thought in the air was that for some refugees being straight in conversation was difficult and they did not understand what such was about. I think tgat in Finland, even though educated picture of the world and objective thinking are valued, those have to be backed up by common sense, lots of wisdom of life and allowing individuality. Being straight talking does not mean suggesting unwise things in the world. Instead opinion need to have wusdom of lufe and common sense backing them up, and wishkng well kn the world, being fair and having enough social skills to suppirt communication also when people are different, instead of walking over the rights of others. So a typical thing to be straight about would be suppirting wise choices in lufe, like choosing a job that one likes instead of a job that is a burden to oneself, kind of supporting wise arrangements in the society and wisdom of life, instead of problematic choices from the point of view of following wise values. 

The people preferrkng the Netherlands seemed to like a quite clise social contact which coukd talk also of difficult things. They felt the social cobtact supportkng them, and they seemed to want point per point socual support in practical matters so that the civiluced society would work wisely that way. In Finland people typically need much more social distance and kndependency. Difficult thing are often not talked about, especially not a lot, but instead people offer solutions tgat are on a general level and seek to be good for all, mistly wisdom of life, basic commln sense and an understanding of the grounds for civiluced choices in the society. So Finns like to handle thibgs on a general level that is surely good for the world and get support from the wisdom of others and also from the weather skills, and so also pets may take part in such life and be greatly valued for their wisdom. On the other hand the pets cannot take you to the working place's dining que or give you a brochure. 

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If one has difficulties because of crime, extreme courses according to a rigid view of the world or extreme or sudden changes of course or to criminal choices, do not seem to be good ideas, since those communicate poirly and typically others just feel that you have betrayed them and are too unwise. Instead use common sense like grounds from a school like basic picture of the world, use mild wordings too, so that your choices make sense to many or to all. The world is wide, so in common sense like choices that make sense from the öoint of view of good lufe fairly for all, now and in the futyre, on in a way is agreeably behaving in the eyes of many. 

If the world is of spirit or otherwise consist of many different smaller worlds, it still applies thst people need to aim toward good living conditions in tge world, since without such a course the living conditiobs aren't cared for so that the future coukd be good. Some deed being social or grounded on social tactics, does not remove the need of it too to be wisely for the good living conditions in the world.